This article is for guys who want to make themselves magnetic to the girl they find really adorable but just can’t get enough. It takes you through the process of how you can get that girl and fortunately or unfortunately have a lot more women drooling over you by the end of it.
Most men, when they have gone out on a couple of dates with a girl, will face difficulties to bring things to the ‘next level’. Irrespective of whether their intentions is just to have sex with the girl, or to go steady with the girl, often they will find it hard to escalate. To make things complicated, you often cannot just outright ASK as you will be perceived as a needy man. The best way to make a woman reject you indeed is to start behaving like a desperate boy.
However, things really don’t have to be so complicated. There are indeed proven ways that will make it easier to take your relationship with the girl to the next level. A deadly effective way to make a girl want you badly is to employ an effective tactic taken from the field of psychology called ‘scarcity’.
According to this theory, anything which is scarce will skyrocket in value. The key to become successful here then is to maintain your scarcity in the relationship. This way, you will maintain your ‘value’ and make yourself appeal more to the girl. Do this often enough, you will be able to find the ‘sweet spot’ and just make her tip over – she might just be the person who ASKS you to be her boyfriend instead!
Finally, here’s one trick you must use – it’s guaranteed to make a girl fall head over heels for you. Another technique heavily borrowed from the psychology field, it’s called ‘fractionation’. It’s pretty simple – when you talk to a girl, get her go through an ’emotional rollercoaster’ – ie by alternating between sad and happy states – and she will find herself get hopelessly attracted to you. It’s really not as difficult as it sounds.
When you come across women, you need to have an attitude of a strong male personality. The best attitudes to throw around would be ones which feature in you “nonchalance” and “non-attachment” to whether she likes you or she does not. Well, if she does like you then it doesn’t get better. But if she doesn’t, you have to show that there are a million other girls out there who are more than amazing compared to her.
Start training yourself and your mind from this moment. Don’t underestimate yourself. You have to get this clear: She is not a challenge for me, I am a challenge for her. Place a high value on yourself. I keep reiterating this because in the presence of that special girl, every guy tends to wag his tail and sticks his tongue out like a hungry dog. Don’t show you are desperate come what may!
Start with building your social network. Don’t be afraid, you are not gonna freak out any girl if you just want to be friends with her. You aren’t even flirting, just friends! That’s it! Women are easy and friendly, so keep your inhibitions away and be fearless. After all you have set yourself high on a pedestal. Believe in that fact. Make friends with as many women as you can.
Having an abundance of women in your life will start solving your problem. You will get her attention. You will see how that girl starts responding towards you differently. She will be intrigued with your personality. She will want to get to know you as she sees your strong personality. Psychologically, this is known as the “social proof” phenomenon. The phenomenon is stronger in women than in men. It causes her to get indirectly attracted to you.
Remember these secrets. Start from this moment and don’t underestimate yourself based on your looks or anything else like that. You will eventually see that you won’t just attract that one girl who you think is your “perfect woman”, but you will have built a personality that will automatically start drawing a ton of other women to you like a magnet!
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